Shay gotta do better #NOW

Shay Johnson has been looking for love since "Flavor of Love " Season 2, which ended with her being eliminated towards the end of the season. We experienced Shay's love quest again on " Love and hip hip: Atlanta, with her love interest Lil Scrappy. Shay and Scrappy seemed perfect together but Scrappy had other plans which didn't include Shay.

 That's the last we have seen of her until "Love and hip hop: Miami which premiered the top of 2018. We were surprised to see Shay's new love interest Pleasure P from the group Pretty Ricky. We thought she finally found the one until Pleasure P's ex-boo dipped back in the picture. We got Shay covered though, cause we love Shay here at Grindin Royal. Here are our 3 Pre relationship must do's.......

Love yourself 

Loving yourself is a priority. You can never love or be loved if you don't love you first. We have to communicate with people, how we need to be loved, We can't assume people automatically know. So lead by example by loving yourself. 

Know what you want 

I believe we all just jump head first into the relationship search. We have to know what we are actually looking for, don't just freestyle your way through. Knowing what you want because you will be asked or cornered with a decision to make, so avoid the drama, make it crystal clear from the jump. 

Friendzone 

Oh, you didn't know you have friend zone rights, You absolutely do. Again no jumping in head first, start in the friend zone and grow from there. It's very important to establish a friendship, that way you get to learn who you potentially are trying to be in a relationship with, look at it like when you get hired for a job and you have to go through a 90-day probationary period. That's a period to see how you perform the job duties and if you like it. You can do the same thing with a potential relationship.